The language we use can create or shut down spaces - eg: 'We're going to draw a prototype' vs 'We're going to doodle'. How can we make invitations easy to accept?
Is it good enough for now and safe enough to try? Ask this to make decisions, rather than aiming for perfect.
Don't look for agreement - agreement is a 'yes' or 'no' binary which is hard. Rather look for consensus - what do you object to, what is your preference and what would you tolerate?
Comes from Western Cartesian philosophy - mind vs body etc. Our default way of thinking - we visit a country etc. Disregards the fact that things sit in a matrix w each other.